"If you will advance confidently in the direction of your dreams,
and endeavor to live the life that you have imagined,
you will meet with success unexpected in common hours"
Henry David Thoreau
I am extremely excited about today's post, I can tell you from a personal standpoint that the ideas I am going to share with you have had a huge impact on my life. I hope they will have the same impact on your life as well. I am dedicating this lesson today to one of my great teacher's and one of my mentors Dr Wayne Dyer. His books and seminars have greatly influenced the way I think, and the manner in which I approach my life. I am going to summarize his ideas to the best of my ability, but If you have time, please watch the video at the bottom of the page. I firmly believe that it will greatly influence your life.
The Four Keys To Becoming A No Limit Person
A no-limit person sees the world as perfect and abundant
It may be hard to believe, but I can assure you that everything in the world is perfect. Don't take my word for it, take a look for yourself. Everything that we need to survive i.e air, water, food, are all free and abundant. We use our mind, which was given to us freely, to create what we need to survive. The sad thing is that people place little value on things that they do not buy. To become a no-limit person, I encourage you to start seeing and appreciating the world for its perfections and abundance. If you are able to do that, you will see a totally different world from others. You would see that all the good things that you have always desired will start flowing into your life freely and abundantly.
A no-limit person learns accepts themselves and others for who they are
Research has shown that they are two ways in which people motivate themselves. They either use deficiency motivation which is operating in a state of lack, or a seeing something negative about themselves that they have to fix or get rid of. When you always see yourself as being deficient, you always strive to fix something about yourself or your circumstances. With such a mindset, your life becomes fill with lack and emptiness because even when you do arrive, circumstances or people will not be as as good or as perfect as you want them to be. You see folks you are never going to get enough, you already are everything you need and more. I encourage you to accept yourself and others for who they are, and learn to live your life in a state of contentment. Nothing new can come into your life unless you learn to appreciate what you already have.
A no-limit person understands the lessons of life and celebrates them
To become a no-limit person, you have to look at every good or bad situation as an opportunity to grow and to better yourself. Life is a teacher, it is constantly looking for ways to teach us how to live the good and honest life. When something bad happens to you, don't dwell on the negative. Instead look for the lesson that life is trying to teach or show you. The best way to seek the lessons in life is by asking yourself this simple questions, What did I do right? and if put in the same situation, What will I do differently? Never ask yourself what you did wrong, because you will start filling yourself with negativity and might miss the lesson. It is also very important that you try to learn from other peoples mistakes. To be a no-limit person, you must become observant and open to life. I urge you to become a diligent student of life, always look for every opportunity to grow. If you do that, like Thoreau said, you will be met with success unexpected in common hours.
A no-limit person is always willing to forgive
Forgiveness is the great secret of life. You must be willing not only to forgive others, but you must also be willing to forgive yourself. Never hold grudges or let hatred dwell in your heart. Today, one of the main causes of death comes from heart attacks and depression. I am not a doctor, or claim to be an expert in health, but from what I have experienced and read, anger and hatred was on of or if not the greatest influence behind these diseases. To move forward in your life, you must be able to forgive anyone or anything that caused you pain in the past. Never let any body or anything affect the way you feel. Remember, if you let anyone hurt you by what they say or do, you are simply telling them that their opinion of you is worth more that what you think of yourself. You should never give any one that great of a power over you. Practice sending love instead of hate. When ever someone tries to hurt you, send them love. I can assure you that by doing so, you will not only have the peace of mind that is essential to be successful, you will also receive love in abundance. Remember, whatever you reap into the universe, you will sow in abundance.
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